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Experience Change...

It is my mission to prevent the unnecessary misery or end of long term relationships due to the lack of repair, care and attention they deserve. It's a no brainer when it comes to investing in a remodel of the house, maintenance of  the cars and root canals, relationships need maintenance and investment too.  Work with me and  turn your relationship back in to a rich fulfilling, loving exchange worthy of the life time commitment. Allow me to assist you in breaking down the walls that have come between you, however they were built.


Intimacy - direct, unmediated, heart to heart connection with ourselves and with others - can only occur when the heart is undefended

To cut through our personal differences, to reach the unveiled part of our selves that is deep enough to express the most profound and untamed aspects of our being means learning how to love and be loved without defences and with out obstructions.  It means cultivating the capacity to be emotionally present even when we feel exposed or vulnerable; learning to relinquish the many strategies we have employed to feel safe and in control; and finding the courage to love without guarantees or requirements. Through developing the capacity for intimacy in this way, we discover love as an abiding presence and the emotional center of our being, our heart, and we can never again feel emotionally disconnected , incomplete or unloved.



What do I do?

Discrete Personalised Attention for Your Relationship Needs

I help clients break down the walls that exist between them.

No matter where we start, whatever the challenge as your coach we work together. I will guide you towards healing old wounds and work through the challenges developing and incorporating potent relationship behaviours that fulfil your needs.

Sometimes it seems that you have it all, beautiful home, successful careers and businesses. Exotic holidays, the kids are happy and family life is great, you have amazing friends and social lives. Everything on the outside looks rosy, and yet life in the bedroom is void of intimacy and pleasure. Being in a relationship with someone you love where sex is either unfulfilling or there is no sex at all is painful. Maybe there is a dark shadow of sexuality that exists between you. Kink that is not understood, porn is a challenge, sex without chemical support seems  impossible... 

We will discover how you can have more fulfilling sexual experiences and become more intimate, we will identify what you BOTH want and need and sometimes what you really don’t!  It doesn’t matter where you are in your life, we get to start from where you are now and design the relationship you both desire.

Do you wonder:

What happened to this part of your relationship?

What happened to connection?

Where did intimacy go?

What happened to a conversation that is not all about logistics? 

If you feel like you have tried everything and have accepted this life as normal.  

Reach out it is so worth it. 

If you have or are you experiencing any of these challenges I am here to help. 

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About Me - Vivien Burke

Professional Sex Relationship and Intimacy Coach and Clinical Sexologist

Membership Body and Accreditations: Member of AC, ANLP, WASC, Professional Associate Member COSRT,  Erotic Blueprint™ Breakthrough Course. Erotic Blueprint™ Master Coach, Accelerated Evolution Coach, NLP Master Practitioner Dip. Compulsive Sexual Behaviour CICS.

I specialise in working with couples and individuals who experience difficulties in their intimate relationships and sexuality. I am trauma informed.

  • Sexless Relationship

  • Compulsive Sexual Behaviours

  • Partners of people with compulsive sexual behaviours,

  • Couple Therapy

  • Chemsex

  • GSRD

  • Kink and BDSM informed

  • Porn

  • Differences in sexual desire within the relationship

  • Communication problems in a relationship, including frequent arguments, rows, blaming

  • Lack of intimacy

  • Erotic Blueprinting

Insurance: I confirm that I have a professional insurance to cover all of my clinical work.

I must inform you I do NOT work with the Sex Addiction Model.

I do not work with Domestic Violence or Domestic Abuse.

My discovery call is complementary. I really appreciate your using the tech booking system.